On the chance there is still anyone following this, an update:
Our relationship is still going, quite strongly actually. We have decided to make an account elsewhere and share some of the experiences, won’t share publicly here, and pretty sure that’s also against the sites TOS, my true apologies. What can one take from this? As ‘weird’ or ‘taboo’ the situation situation looks from the outside, the outcome is a testament to strong will, and how important of a role it plays in attraction. Two and a half years ago, I would have never imagined the place I find myself now. And I never would have been here unless risks were taken, over and over again. Don’t be afraid to live your life guys, and take that risk, we only have one go at this after-all.