Men whose wives / girlfriends got reductions: how did you cope?

[SunRisingInside]

It happened to me last year. She was an old flame, and we were trying to get back together, but then, she broke the news. It sent me into a months-long depression and ultimately killed my feelings for her. I think the worst part was learning that she had already been contemplating a reduction when we met. She used her G cups to seduce me, even as she was wanting to get rid of them. I still love big tits, probably more than ever, but I'm terrified of having that happen again. I feel like future first dates need to include candid talk about body modification plans. One bait and switch was enough.

 

[eric69]

If you're with someone just because of their boobs, then I think they can do better than you.

I had an ex whose boobs fluctuated with her weight and diet. It wasn't the end of the world.

 

[SunRisingInside]

I wish I only liked her for her tits. We were a perfect match in almost every way, that's what made it so painful. But I agree: she should be with someone who genuinely does not care, just like I should be with someone who would never seriously consider a reduction, let alone actually go through with it, all while hiding those plans from her partner. The fact that she did those things means we were never right for each other to begin with. That's been the hardest pill to swallow.

 

[Manifest_Destiny]

If you're with someone just because of their boobs, then I think they can do better than you.

I had an ex whose boobs fluctuated with her weight and diet. It wasn't the end of the world.

C'mon man, we geddit, but it's a legitimate area of inquiry.

Yeah that's not the sole or even primary reason to enter into a relationship, but the thought of it happening as just a hypothetical (I'm single btw) does make me think.

 

[Wombble]

My partner throws out the idea now and then she’d like to get them reduced but she knows that I enjoy them, as bad as it sounds her breasts we’re one of the main reasons I got with her and I think she might have clicked onto that , I’d be pretty devastated if she went down that road of reducing and I feel the same it’ll be a bit of a game changer but it wouldn’t be the end of us, I visit places like these to fill most my needs

 

[spikelove]

Isn’t this what an affair or side bitches are for?

Take a tip from your French brethren who have the art of having affairs down to a tee that it’s pretty much par for the course over in France.

 

[mulch]

you should love an support her, and not be so selfish and self centered with a'what about me' attitude. if you were just in it for her boobs, thats sad. a woman is much more than just boobs.

 

[Rickymorton]

Honestly I tried but it fizzled out

 

[Titaddicted]

you should love an support her, and not be so selfish and self centered with a'what about me' attitude. if you were just in it for her boobs, thats sad. a woman is much more than just boobs.

in case the reason to reduce is obviously medical you are right. But when she got some idea of improvement has hit her it than it could be a lot less clear.

 

[pridegang]

unless its a medical emergency this is always the wrong choice for a woman to make. size can fluctuate with weight, and thats absolutely acceptable - but choosing to chop them off otherwise is always for aesthetic reasons, yet obviously makes them look worse. they were just too lazy to do the gym work to strengthen their back if they blame it on back pain, and if they want to look 'more cute in clothes' then they should know they wont look cute to me, and if you wont weigh your partners preference in the choice, you are selfish and care more about others than them.

my ex got a reduction and guess? shes my ex now. she had amazing H cups and now has a scarred chest that looks out of proportion with her body. we broke up of course, what am i supposed to do if every time she took her top off my cock became flaccid. its true that a woman is more than her tits, but its also true that if you look at your partner and feel disgusted after they chop them off then the relationship was killed by their choice.

for the record she told me she regrets chopping them off every day. I feel bad for her, but my current partner is bigger and carries them with a confidence and pride that makes me only love her more.

 

[Titaddicted]

@pridegang What a horrible experience for both of you!! How on earth did she get such a bad idea in the first place? And ignoring your warning. But I must say the way you've explained your view seems damn right to me.

Please have a look and review on my post about a BR on German TV. That guy seems the underdog in the situation, shows no opposition.

Link:https://titsintops.com/phpBB2/index.php?threads/tv-report-on-breast-reduction.13550161/