Are big tits a case of diminishing returns?

[Carpetcorn]

Not for me. I need them. First wife had large C into D range and I knew that wouldn’t be enough for my lifetime. Relationship fizzled anyways. Second wife was a DDD which of course was great and then she grew into a J cup which was amazing. I was fulfilled, life was good. Then she got a reduction and I was completely turned off by her appearance. Both in shrinkage of size but also the shape and destruction of the breast, the areolas, and the nipple placement. Where she was seeking some kind of mythical “proportional” to her body size she only ended up creating a pear shape for a body. She thought I’d developed Erectile dysfunction but it was really that I was no longer sexually attracted to her. So there is my diminishing return. You can’t marry for breasts. There are girls who are escorts, ”sexual therapists”, or just in the wild that understand my/our fetish but they’re few. No girl wants to be known for just a body part. Most regular girls, the type you marry, don’t want to be objectified yet many seem to privately understand that once they get “locked” into a relationship they feel secure enough to reduce their breasts, cut their hair short, gain weight etc…I’ve been in several relationships now where they think its going into marriage and they start discussing breast reductions. The hard truth is that most women of any size are tired of their breasts at 30 and absolutely sick of them at 40. The more they become less interested in sex the easier it is for them to start butchering their bodies. Been there several times now and will no doubt go through it again.

 

[Carpetcorn]

could you explain it?
…that the initial excitement always vanishes no matter how many women you date?

The initial excitement never wears off for me. Every moment I get to see a beautiful woman (by beautiful I mean about an E cup or better) undressed it’s a moment I savour. Never vanishes. Could be a woman I just met or one I’ve been dating for months or years. Very large breasts are just the most amazing thing ever no matter the age, the color, or how old.

 

[Coughcoughtits]

Get her on board with natural breast enhancement. Fenugreek caps with daily massage. It’s worked for my GF. Her boobs have grown like 10 times what they used to be over the years. But she’s also just developed as a woman and gained lots of weight. She’s also black that helps

 

[erihp]

Get her on board with natural breast enhancement. Fenugreek caps with daily massage. It’s worked for my GF. Her boobs have grown like 10 times what they used to be over the years. But she’s also just developed as a woman and gained lots of weight. She’s also black that helps

10x? Citation requested

 

[totallynot]

That’s even scientifically proven.
Just google coolidge effect

I was a bit disappointed this had nothing to do with Jennifer Coolidge aka Stifler's mom. Funny story though, the one where it got its name.

 

[quofi2]

I was a bit disappointed this had nothing to do with Jennifer Coolidge aka Stifler's mom. Funny story though, the one where it got its name.

that would've been hilarious if they had named it after stiflers mom - the stifler's mom effect

 

[rip10]

My ex wife was a D cup and I got bored with her, wanted bigger and divorced her. My wife now is a E cup and I'm growing bored, wanting bigger and we fight a lot. Am I the only one here whom keeps wanting bigger and bigger tits to enjoy? Is it natural to keep wanting bigger and bigger or at least hornier and hornier? Does it ever end? Lol I've been with Ds, Es, Hs, Js and Ms. Those Js fucking felt amazing wrapped around my cock.

All sex is a diminishing return. The more exotic you get with it, the more the return diminishes. Huge tits are no exception. If you are to stay with one wife, you need to have a lot of other things in common besides tits. Since you love tits, it feels uncomfortable to know that they can be diminishing returns; it's an awful thing really. You'll either have to get comfortable with the fact that anything sexual will be a diminishing return, or find a woman that has more in common with you. That's just the way it is, unfortunately.

 

[Wardaddies]

Get her on board with natural breast enhancement. Fenugreek caps with daily massage. It’s worked for my GF. Her boobs have grown like 10 times what they used to be over the years. But she’s also just developed as a woman and gained lots of weight. She’s also black that helps

Tell me about the fenugreek caps and message methods, I have a thread about growing them and we want as much info on the topic we can get

 

[JuggloverFF]

Oddly enough...internet dating. Lol my current wife-Es and my ex girlfriend-Hs went to nursing school together. The H cup was an internet relationship that lasted three years or so. After my first marriage I vowed to not settle and go after the large tits I want. I'm fearful it won't ever end now though lol.

Seems you have an internal issue of being happy

 

[iron_chef_sanji]

You really divorced a D cup specifically because of her boobs, then ended up with… an E cup?

Yet you’ve been with up to M cups?

How did you not learn your lesson, dude?

 

[Boobyz_boyz]

I usually get bored after 6 months.

I think for me it's a mix of:
- which I haven't experienced with her, so it sets me goals that I want to achieve (like anal or whatever). Once all the goals are met enough times, I don't get excited anymore and I start looking for another girl
- Another thing that can hold me longer is the fact that I don't feel like I "own" her. If I have this feeling, I also start to get bored.

I need freedom in my life, so I decide not to be in a relationship for the moment, and to give myself a chance to get to know each other better girl after girl. I hope one day I can find THE GIRL regardless of her bra size and not be bored.

 

[rip10]

I usually get bored after 6 months.

I think for me it's a mix of:
- which I haven't experienced with her, so it sets me goals that I want to achieve (like anal or whatever). Once all the goals are met enough times, I don't get excited anymore and I start looking for another girl
- Another thing that can hold me longer is the fact that I don't feel like I "own" her. If I have this feeling, I also start to get bored.

I need freedom in my life, so I decide not to be in a relationship for the moment, and to give myself a chance to get to know each other better girl after girl. I hope one day I can find THE GIRL regardless of her bra size and not be bored.

Well expressed truths right here.

 

[crackofnoon]

could you explain it?
…that the initial excitement always vanishes no matter how many women you date?

edit: ahh....Do you mean in the long run busty women are like any other women and therefore other aspects of her should be more important when it comes to marriage?

The initial excitement always vanishes. If you only want that feeling of something new, I'd recommend getting a vasectomy, and not worrying about getting a girl pregnant and stay single. If you are always searching for a bigger, busty gal, or a different one, that is fine. If you want children and a family and partner for the long run, you should find the right busty gal. Find a busty gal that you really like, personality, family, etc. I dated plenty of hot, busty gals that were crazy, possessive, had lots of issues. I found a normal, busty, and very nice gal to marry and have kids. My opinion is that anyone on this site, who is single, should look for a busty gal, or they won't be happy in the long run. Just don't find a busty, crazy gal.

 

[Weiya666]

Is that a troll post? Your wife is supposed to be much more than a pair of breasts. I can see dating women with bigger breasts, but divorcing over getting bored of boobs? WTF....

 

[Wardaddies]

The initial excitement always vanishes. If you only want that feeling of something new, I'd recommend getting a vasectomy, and not worrying about getting a girl pregnant and stay single. If you are always searching for a bigger, busty gal, or a different one, that is fine. If you want children and a family and partner for the long run, you should find the right busty gal. Find a busty gal that you really like, personality, family, etc. I dated plenty of hot, busty gals that were crazy, possessive, had lots of issues. I found a normal, busty, and very nice gal to marry and have kids. My opinion is that anyone on this site, who is single, should look for a busty gal, or they won't be happy in the long run. Just don't find a busty, crazy gal.

This right here, I like this post

 

[TKwr900]

Depends on the girl. I’d rather have a spunky wife with no tits than a miserable wife w huge ones who’s always sore and no sex drive. It’s nice to be w someone who’s a visual commodity but it fades fast.

It's better to be single than in either of those situations though. Both brain and willy need to be stimulated for a relationship to work.

It's honestly really hard to find both though, esecially if you're only aroused by exceedingly rare body types.